I'm a lot of opposites! But not too extreme! I love my own company but of course I like interesting company. I work with children, love their humour and originality I guess because that's a bit of me, too. I hate housework but love a beautiful, peaceful home, so it gets done! I'd rather read or write or enjoy the sunshine or go for a walk or visit friends or go shopping, if I have any spare money, that is! I worked in Holland for years, teaching English in businesses, my first teaching job was in a prison and now I work privately! I was born in Hong Kong, have many Dutch friends - they are so straight forward and honest and I love that. I adore my 3 black, feral cats, mystic and always interesting and lethal hunters. In Spain, they are my longest standing and most loving friends! I trust very few people and generally think that nothing is as it first seems. Everyone has their black spots and their story, me included. My heart is not up for grabs - I used to be very impulsive and it got me into trouble, and now I'm content to have a friend, then maybe a good friend and then maybe my heart might become involved. I do not believe in unconditional love - it has been demanded!! I think you have to work hard at a relationship and give a lot of space and also consideration to your friends/partner. Parents and apparently God, give unconditional love - I don't - you will have to win my respect, I'm afraid. For the rest, contact me!!!

He'll be interesting and probably will have travelled. We will have things in common, love of animals, reading, Fleetwood Mac, Van Morrison, an education, a desire to make a difference, love of the mountains and a good walk. He'll be a bit of a free spirit, artistic and creative and hopefully, solvent. He'll be great company and I'll be proud of him when I introduce him to friends. He'll like to cook sometimes and not be cynical or a show off. God, this could be asking too much, but anyway, no ones perfect and I won't judge you. I will know if we are from the same tribe!